It’s My Birthday And I’ll Cry If I Want To!

“It’s my birthday and I’ll cry if I want to …cry if I want to …cry if I want to”.  Okay I know the real lyrics are “It’s my PARTY and I’ll cry if I want to …”  If you have no idea what I am talking about – that’s proof I AM old!  Truthfully, if I cry it’s tears of JOY,  GRATITUDE and APPRECIATION for life’s experiences.

Birthday At 51 years “young” I don’t feel much older than I did in high school, it’s only when I pass a mirror that I am reminded of my age. I decided to make a list of all the things I have been fortunate to experience throughout the past half-a-century as a reminder how precious life truly is ….

  1. Born on ranch in Montana to the best family ever!
  2. Rode horses everyday…. okay not everyday, but a lot
  3. Met my future husband at age 8
  4. My mother saw that I was kept busy so I didn’t have time to get into trouble; Dance, Piano, Guitar, Voice Lessons, Gymnastics and played in the Band – alto saxophone
  5. Grew up with 6 living grandparents
  6. Kept busy in High School: Senior Class President, Vice-President of Ski Club, Gymnastics team-Captain, Seminary Council, Choir Secretary – these roles landed me a Leadership Scholarship to BYU!
  7. Skier – favorite resort: Alta
  8. Loved the College life – BYU and BYU-Hawaii
  9. Learned to Surf and Snorkel. (hate snorkeling – claustrophobic)
  10. Married my secret High School crush – Scott Mackintosh
  11. Mother of 7 AMAZING kids
  12. Natural childbirth
  13. One C-Section
  14. Milked goats for 12 years
  15. Community Service “Door Knocker” Award
  16. 4H Horsemanship Leader – 17 years
  17. England and Scotland – Twice
  18. I’m a Cruise-a-holic – 8 Cruises
  19. Para-Sailing- Twice (hated it – scared to death of heights)
  20. India – Twice (loved, loved, loved my experience in India and the priceless friendships made)
  21. Dubai
  22. Rode a Camel and an Elephant
  23. Held a python and hand fed a shark
  24. Camping with my family – love roasting marshmellows around a camp fire
  25. Worked for two AMAZING Speaker/Authors: Kevin Hall and Chad Hymas which led to meeting….
  26. Inspiring people: Immaculée Ilibagiza, Emmanuel Kelly, Rolanda Watts, Sean Stevenson, Dave Winfield, Mark Sandborn, Bridget Cook, Rebecca Musser, Lisa Nichols, Allison Byrd, Thurl Bailey, Mark Eaton, Jason Hewlett and the master of words Arthur Watkins.  ….and so many others through the National Speakers Association.
  27. Gone Viral – Met Rachael Ray and Regis Philbin
  28. Wrote a book “My Husband Wears The Short Shorts In THIS Family!”
  29. Met and conversed with the LDS Prophet Thomas S. Monson for 20 minutes – a highlight of my life!
  30. and the BESTEST of all  ….I am a GRANDMA!


I am truly indebted to God, my Heavenly Father, who has deeply blessed me, carried me through dark times when I wanted to give up, wiped away my tears when my heart was breaking, allowed me to experience and grow through trials and challenges and has not let a day go by that he didn’t tell me or show me how much he loves me.  I see it in my children’s faces, in my husband’s hug, in the flowers, the birds and the many wonderful friends that contribute to who I am. I am a child of God, a wife, mother and friend ….what more could a person ask for?  I can’t think of a dang thing, except for perhaps a big piece of  strawberry short cake.  HaPpY Birthday to me!




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